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Chicago, IL
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In their own words

I live, laugh, read, travel, nap, eat, and have peace.

I look forward to conversations of substance, enjoy listening and learning about others. Love to laugh and hear good music regardless of genre, extra points if it’s live. I get excited learning and experiencing new things. Seeing the world and learning about different cultures is something I thoroughly enjoy. I believe life is for living, being happy, learning, loving, giving, and experiencing joy. Llifelong learner and advocate of leaving things better than I found them. I have a love for reading, food, traveling, family, sports, exploring, tea, data, board games, mentoring, volunteering, podcast, and people watching. I’m honest, caring, confident, a great thought partner, a proud parent, author, entrepreneur, project manager, podcaster, and an optimistic people person :-).

Appearance
Hair
Black
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Full-Figured
Height
5'  9"   (175 cm)
Family Roots
American
Race
Black / African descent
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
Yes
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Spiritual
Education
Master's Degree
Occupation
Financial / Accounting / Insurance / Real Estate
Income
Over $100,000
Politics
Some Other Viewpoint
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
R&B / Soul, Country, Classical, Lounge / Chill
Favorites
Favorite Books
,The Let them theory, talented tenth, change your questions change your life, the alchemist, a love letter to whiskey, I thought it was just me, ferocious warrior by Cora Jakes,
Favorite Cities
New Orleans, Chicago, San Diego, Bern, Aosta, Valle De Guadalupe, La Paz,
Favorite Country
Thus far it’s a toss up between Italy and Switzerland
Favorite Night Clubs
Not a club pery
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
Idk yet
Interests
Animals
Owls, elephants, peacocks, lions, wolves
Art
All kinds
Board Games
Scrabble
Card Games
Solitare, spades,
Cars
Too may to list. My dad was a mechanic and built racing motors
Children
I have three (2 grown, one pre teen). I don’t plan on having anymore, but I love children and babies are the cutest.
Circus
Not a huge fan. Free the animals
Comedy
Love clean comedy the most. Not everyone can pull that off
Community Service
Volunteering brings me joy. Helping others is truly something I love to do.
Cooking
Love trying new things and cooking for people
Dancing
I want to do more dancing and leaning new styles
Dating
Haven’t done it in a long time, praying it will be kind to me.
Dogs and Cats
I grew up with dogs my whole life. Had 2 one died recently so it’s just one little 15 year old dog left with me
Drawing
I cannot draw stick people well. I’m left handed, my focus is writing better, drawing isn’t my thing.
Electronics
Toys for adults!!
Exercise
Love pushing myself to stay healthy and flexible
Food
Mmmmm
Football
Love the international and American version
Gambling
Not really a gambler
Gardening
Love it! I have a large garden
Guns
Learning how to use one this year
Internet
Um…I use it daily.
Live Concerts
One of my favorite things to experience
Math
I can add, Subtract, divide and multiply just fine. Thank you for asking.
Medicine
Love learning about natural remedies
Movies
I love different genres.
Painting
I enjoy going to art galleries. My painting personally…….. please see what I wrote about drawing.
Photography
I enjoy capturing nature, especially when traveling. I love mountains, country sides, castles, bodies of water, looking at structures and architecture. I enjoy capturing beauty around the world through my eyes.
Politics
I have so many thoughts and enjoy listening and understanding others views as well.
Psychology
Reading and learning and observing how people work operate and think is truly interesting.
Reading
Favorite thing to do
Religion
I’m more spiritual than religious, but grew up Christian, and I’m strong in my faith
Running
Not my ministry, but I can do some jogging and power walk very well.
School
I love learning
Shopping
I like it, but I don’t love it.
Singing
I can do a little something something.
Stock Market
Enjoy trading, learning, and watching the market
Television
I don’t watch it
Theater
Love going to the theater and seeing plays and musicals
Traveling
I live to travel
Walking
Daily habit
Writing
Brings me joy
Personality
Adventurousness Somewhat Daring
Affectionateness Very Doting
Trustingness Average
Confidence Somewhat Confident
Independence Somewhat Independent
Mood Somewhat Chill
Romance Very Romantic
Sociability Somewhat Extroverted
Thought Process Somewhat Analytical
Tolerance Average
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Casual
Energy Somewhat High
Go Party Rarely
Religion Average
Neatness Somewhat Neat
Punctuality Often Early
Spending Somewhat Thrifty
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
Do you believe in love at first sight?
I believe in connection at first sight
How many kids would you like to have?
Already have all the kids that I will bring into this world.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
Somewhat important. I believe looks fade as you get older. It’s important that a person takes care of themselves and are healthy. I’m more concerned about the person’s character, integrity, personality, values, and morals.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
It would be a root cause problem solver. For people and communities
What is the purpose of marriage?
I believe it’s a covenant between two people and God where to become one and they lived their best lives with each other. I think the purpose is to elevate and support each other so that you can evolve into the best version of yourself and listen to the purpose of the universe has for you. I believe that when a person is properly loved and supported, they can be their best selves.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
That I am in charge of my own happiness and that it is my responsibility to make sure I am happy healthy, and whole. And that if I don’t take care of me, then I can’t pour into and help others.
What do your friends like about you most?
I’m loyal a good listener, a great thought partner and I show up.
What do your friends tease you about the most?
Having such a good heart and being too kind
What gets on your nerves?
That common sense isn’t common
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Effective communication
What's the best age to get married?
I don’t think there is the best age. That’s an individual thing. Some people need to have experiences in life first some people need to learn a few lessons.
What turns you off?
Poor communication, lack of consistency, words, not matching actions
What turns you on?
I’m a Sapiosexual, I’m mentally stimulated, non-sexual intimacy, touch, the right mix of masculine dominance, confidence, a man who can lead, has a good heart for people, a passion for his work and a love for his family.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Enjoy enjoying life, seeing the world, experiencing new things with my person hopefully.
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