I have been on this site for a long time and I am about to get a Masters in Sociology. Since I lost my job and it's hard to find a new job, I spend some of my time here people watching. Most people feel lonely, which I do too, but it's my choice. Why is it my choice? Because I notice that most of those who are here do not know what they want. Most people lie, they present themselves as completely different from what they really are. Many times I wanted to hide out of humility what I really want, what suits me. I want a man who is kind, presentable, we match in age, not miserable because only such a man will make me happy.