Interested in long term committed relationship

I'm looking for a kind and romantic gentleman to share the rest of my life with. I am an active person who has raised her children and now wants to enjoy her life. I am an interior designer and a specialized registered nurse that can move to the U.S or other provinces of Canada easily due to the specific job. However, before moving to the USA or other provinces of Canada, I have to see how the relationship works for us first. I love my children; and care about them, but I'm not attached to them, so I'm looking for someone who is on the same page. I'm looking for an open-minded gentleman who is not judgemental, non-religious, and not a traditional thinker. I'm strictly monogamous, and I expect to have a soulmate who thinks the same and can be committed in a relationship. Being well educated, generous, and successful in life is important to me. In addition, I'm a sapiophile...pls consider that I'm not here to have fun/ flirt with you. I'd like to start with a simple friendship to get to know each other and see how the friendship works, then If we are on the same page, ultimately move towards marriage. By the way, my photos are taken recently 2 of them a few days ago...Pls don't send me a message to ask me for recent pics. (I got a few msgs about that) Best of luck to everyone!