I am a self-reliant, SWF, BBW, 45. I have a very laid back personality and do not like a lot of drama. I enjoy quiet times with good people. I consider myself to be an honest, caring, intelligent and fun woman. I love good conversation, and prefer to spend my time with those who are intellingent, articulate and possess the capability to engage in dialogue on a variety of subjects. Someone who understands that to debate is not to argue, and people can have opposing views, and express those views, without the other party trying to convinvce them how wrong they are. I have a very strong, dominant personality, and enjoy a man who has the strength and power to complement my strength, not be withered by it; nor try to extinguish it. If you'd like to contact me, I carry this name wherever I go. Hope to hear from you! Looking For: I would like to meet someone who is laid back, has a good sense of humor. Someone intelligent and articulate who enjoys a good conversation. Someone who appreciates a strong women who sometimes would like to have a strong man to lean on.