“I am looking for a single man aged 38–47, living in Europe, who is working, has a Master’s or PhD degree, is emotionally stable, and ready for marriage and a stable life.” Please do not ask me if I can come to your house in Madrid or if you can come to mine. This is not an Airbnb application. I do not invite any man to my home. This is not a hotel. If you want to come to Madrid, please book a hotel.