I am a cheerful optIMistic loving, gentle person who is self employed. And, yes my pictures are all recent :) I am a self-employed solo self-contained singer/entertainer/dancer, compère. I also provide music therapy at Nursing Homes and Day Centres. I specialise in Dementia and those with complex physical needs and learning disabilities. Age is just a number to me although I prefer men younger than me. Around 41-46 is preferable. NON SMOKERS ONLY PLEASE. I am kind, gentle and loving and looking for someone sIMilar. I would like to actually meet someone and see where it goes from there. I am bashful to start with so please don't mistake that for no spark. I may appear standoffish but I'm not. I'm just not the sort to take the lead.