You can't win the lottery if you don't play right ? I"m not a fan of online sites for meeting but, I also don't think a bar or night club is the right place to find Mr. Right either. I love working out 4-5 times a week. I have a great job, am a non smoker looking for similar likes in a companion. My best attribute is not a physical feature you can see, like eyes, or lips....it is my generous heart. The right man will discover this. Happy hunting. I adore kids. I am not able to birth any. :-(