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Male
Never Married
Bourne End, England
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In their own words

empire of the sun

I'm an introvert with a poetic disposition. So I'd suit someone who loves deep conversation. Of course deep means different things to different people; in general I mean the interplay of ideas. To fall in love it's not enough for me to be impressed just with how you look, I crucially need to fall in love with how you think, your depth, your energy and mode of expression. I'm highly ambitious and Alhomdolillah successful in my career. I'm currently working towards a employer-funded MSc in Applied Statistics, and I enjoy balancing my literary interests with the more technical nature of my work. I'm especially fond of classic fiction as it's such a rich source for expanding one's vocab; I also enjoy contemporary novels. I'm also a movie-buff, catching a movie a week all year round. I prefer quality sci-fi, although some of my favourite movies also comprise dramas and arthouse/independent works. Finally, I love travelling. In 2013 I visited Italy and South Africa.

Appearance
Best Feature
Lips
Hair
Black
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Average
Height
5'  8"   (173 cm)
Family Roots
Pakistani
Race
Asian
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
No
Wants Kids
Yes
Religion
Muslim
Education
Bachelor's Degree
Occupation
I'll tell you later
Income
$60,000 - $75,000
Exercise
Occasionally
Politics
Liberal
What languages do you speak?
English, Punjabi, Urdu
Favorite Music
Alternative, Dance / Electronica / House, Rock & Roll
Favorites
Favorite Authors
Thomas Hardy
Favorite Bands
Interpol
Favorite Books
The Man who was Thursday
Favorite Cities
Venice
Favorite Clothing Stores
Yoox.com
Favorite Colors
Maroon
Favorite Country
Italy
Favorite Comedies
Monty Python
Favorite Dramas
Tree of Life
Favorite Action Movies
Bourne Trilogy
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
Paris or Venice
Favorite Politicians
Boris Johnson
Favorite Sports Teams
Italian football team
Favorite Songs At The Moment
We Are The People by Empire of the Sun
Interests
Art
Renoir, van Gogh
Comedy
Mock the Week, Phone shop
Reading
Classic novels, philosophy
Personality
Adventurousness Average
Affectionateness Somewhat Doting
Trustingness Somewhat Skeptical
Confidence Average
Independence Somewhat Independent
Mood Somewhat Chill
Romance Somewhat Romantic
Sociability Somewhat Introverted
Thought Process Average
Tolerance Average
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Formal
Energy Average
Go Party Sometimes
Religion Average
Neatness Somewhat Neat
Punctuality Often Early
Spending Somewhat Spendthrift
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
In a classy restaurant with a fine menu and selection of wines. Although when I've found the one, it won't matter where we are, because fine company takes care of everything.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
In the first seconds of seeing someone we've already worked out whether we find the person attractive or not. Love is much more complex - a better phrase would be lust at first sight.
How many kids would you like to have?
At least 2.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
Definitely. But it doesn't seal the deal. I wrote about it in my profile.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
To hear what others are thinking. And flying.
What is the purpose of marriage?
I believe in it. Some say marriage is the end of love. To me it's another phase of love. As long as you both work hard to keep it spontaneous and invigorated it'll last a life time.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
It's okay to make mistakes, it's okay to fail, because we all do from time to time - what matters is how you pick yourself up.
What do your friends like about you most?
That I tell it like it is. So they always know where they stand with me.
What gets on your nerves?
Ignorance, bad manners, impoliteness, rude behaviour, everything that isn't gentlemanly? And when the defenseless are exploited.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Trust. It's all about building trust. When it's gone, the relationship is effectively over. Honesty is important too but only as a means to building trust. To make love to someone there's an element of trust involved too.
What's the best age to get married?
There's no best age. Next question
What turns you off?
Boneheads.
What turns you on?
Intelligence. I mean that's what really turns me on. A fine looking lady I'll find appealing, but if she doesn't sound smart it'll be an instant turn off for me. If the conversation is interesting then I'm hooked.
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