I am a 47 year old single father of three, two are mine, and one is adopted. My oldest is 20(adopted), my first born is 19, and my daughter is 16. As long as my daughter has been alive, is how long I have been single. It was a conscious decision on my part to not try to create another family or have girlfriend after girlfriend coming through the house, but to raise my kids and make sure they were kept in a healthy home. I am a musician, singer, published author (short fiction), a poet (also published), and I am Lakota/Dakota and wee bit o' Irish! I also just finished my first year as a teacher! I teach out native language to a school that has never had it taught there before. My mother and father have both passed away, as did my oldest brother. I am forever searching for The One. She is out there, somewhere - and I hope to find her. She doesn't have to be a supermodel or any such a woman, but she has to understand that I do not want any more children. It would not be fair to the baby because I am older. She has to like to laugh, love movies, and love music(with extra credit in liking the blues.) I hope to find her..