the secret to a good relationship is to be attracted to the other person for who they are and not try in any way to change them.if you are compatible fine,if not no need to try to make things happen.when there is a problem discuss it,taulk it over and dont let the day end holding a grudge.have the same core values in life and the same sense of humor...if you can make eachother laugh then you are on the right track.if you can find a person that understands your weirdness and flaws then you are lucky!