Go big....or go home! :)

I am divorced with two children that live with me. My kids, family and friends are my entire world. They keep me going! My headline, "go big or go home" is pretty much my philosophy about how I live my life. I love unconditionally, I work hard, play hard, compete (or try to) hard, party hard (when I do not have my kids), joke and laugh all the time, love to veg on occasion, and take things to an "all or nothing" level. My energy is contagious and would love to find someone that can just "go with the flow" and keep up. I would like to find someone that I can take to a Black Tie event one night; then, hit a sports bar/dive bar the next night. On the other hand, when it is down time, then I am all about relaxing and taking it easy. Again, there is no middle ground (ha ha). I am told I think like a guy! I look at the big picture, petty things don't interest me, gossip, drama all that stuff is just too time consuming and useless. With that said....I can't handle "high maintenance" guys. I'm too busy for that and really would rather find someone that is trusting, honest, loyal and confident when given space. I know that it sounds mean, but at the age I'm at, if you are not comfortable with yourself, I would not be good for you! The bottom line is.....I want to meet someone that is compatible with me based on their CORE BEING. I have some specific qualities that I am looking for. Do you have them????? :)