Firstly I want to give a big hand and thanks to all of the weirdos and creepos that made the online dating scene seem like the next great gadget everyone is dying to go out and buy. All jokes aside, I'd say having the good fortune to cross paths with a woman who has brains and beauty is like finding a very rare and precious gemstone. And even more rare is the extra little chemical reaction to spark the fire - If beauty, brains, and chemistry converged, I may be willing to change my religion or even start a new one. Ideally, for the right woman, being a lady will come as naturally as treating others with respect, sharing in the "never a dull moment" together, having independence, discovering far and away exotic places, sharing time with other important people, and most importantly being a springboard to bounce happy go lucky vibes that both of us can never (oops I said the n word) get enough of. It's not one of life's great mysteries to treat others the way you want them to treat you or to give the things you hope one day might find their way to you - it's better to be on the good side of karma. I'm keeping my eyes wide open for someone so special that will make me totally and unexpectedly revamp my much revered attitude of gratitude.