I've been told I am the girl next door. I have 2 grown children that turned out to be my best friends, I'm grateful as can be. Raised them to be independent and now I found myself with too much time on my hands :) I'm not looking for anything casual because for one reason I don't have to look... its everywhere anytime and can be found anyplace. Casual is the easiest relationship and I for 1 want to have the extraordinary. I have found that chemistry is a force to be reckoned with while extremely important and rare, the whole package needs to flow. Hence the search is on.