I am a post-operative transsexual, and have been to Italy a several times where I fell in love with the Italian man. As far as I am concerned, you are not a man unless you're Italian.The fact that I wasn't born female may turn a good number of men off, but I know there is someone out there for me. I hope he's here! Right now, I'm living in the Denver area. I hope to meet a nice Italian man in my area.