Music-loving tech geek, wicked sense of humour. Love history, adventures

I'm looking for a woman who's comfortable in her own skin: confident, affectionate, independent and just mischievous enough to keep me on my toes. Someone with opinions of her own who enjoys a proper debate without turning a disagreement into a war. You don't have to agree with me; you do have to be able to laugh with me afterwards. I love music, history, films, good food and spontaneous adventures, and I'd enjoy sharing some of those things with you. But bring your own passions too. I'd rather discover something new together than expect us to be identical. I'm autistic, and I sometimes disappear into projects for hours. I need someone who understands that concentration isn't rejection, but who'll also grin, tell me to shut the computer and come out for the day. Affection matters: cuddles, kisses, cooking together, chemistry, laughter and the occasional gloriously inappropriate joke. I'm not after constant messages, games, money or a relationship that exists only on a screen. I'd like a genuine connection with someone who's ready to meet, make memories and see where life takes us. Most of all, I'm looking for my best friend, lover and favourite partner in crime for many years.