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Female
Divorced
Johannesburg, South Africa
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In their own words

Grounded, intelligent; seeking a true companion.

Welcome, and thank you for visiting my profile:) I’m warm, funny, deeply intuitive, and grounded. I love meaningful conversations, simple pleasures, where two people can meet without masks. I carry both softness and strength. I thrive when my relationships, and my spirit are aligned. I studied alternative well-being therapies in South Korea, where I became certified in Meditation, Breath Work, and Meridian-based movement (similar to yoga). l embrace femininity, grounded in nurturing energy, calm strength, and emotional depth. I value emotional honesty, kindness, and the quiet power of a sincere heart. I believe that love should be intentional and wholehearted. When shared with the right person, even the simplest moments can feel special. I will love you deeply and support your growth, as I hope to be supported in return. My time alone has taught me to value connection even more deeply, not out of desperation, but out of clarity. I am not afraid to show affection, gratitude, and tenderness. I lead a simple life and appreciate the beauty of nature, meaningful conversations, and genuine companionship. If you’re someone who values emotional maturity, calm, good conversation, the ability to laugh at life and leads with his heart, then I’d love to connect. Life is too precious to love small. May your time here bring you closer to what you are looking for. Warmest wishes.

Appearance
Hair
Black
Eyes
Black
Physique
Slender
Height
5'  3"   (160 cm)
Family Roots
South African
Race
Black / African descent
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
Yes
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Spiritual
Education
Some College
Occupation
Entrepreneurial / Start Up
Income
I'll tell you later
Politics
Some Other Viewpoint
What languages do you speak?
English, Other
Favorite Music
Classical, Acoustic, R&B / Soul, Instrumental
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Delroy Lindo, Daniel Day-Lewis,
Favorite Actresses
Alfre Woodard, Frances McDormand
Favorite Artists
Michael Jackson
Favorite Athletes
Coco Gauff - tennis
Favorite Authors
Paulo Coelho, Alice Walker, Richard Bach, Ayn Rand, Ben Okri
Favorite Hangouts
Quiet cafés, botanical gardens
Favorite Books
The Alchemist
Favorite Cities
Cape Town, Seoul, Rome
Favorite Colors
Black, Blue, Red, Earth tones
Favorite Country
South Africa
Favorite Drinks
Coffee, Tea, sparkling water
Favorite Fast Foods
Sushi (if counted), grilled chicken
Favorite Magazines
I don’t read traditional magazines; I consume intelligent, investigative online content that scrutinizes world governments, global economics, and cultural shifts.
Favorite Comedies
Modern family-style humor
Favorite Dramas
Thoughtful, character-driven dramas
Favorite Horror Movies
None
Favorite Action Movies
Jason Bourne series
Favorite Night Clubs
Prefer lounges or intimate spaces
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
Neck and lips
Favorite Politicians
Prefer visionary thinkers over politicians
Favorite Quote From A Movie
“Stay open, who knows, lightning could strike.” - from Meet Joe Black
Favorite Restaurants
Quiet spots with good seafood, Mediterranean or Asian fusion
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Hope Ascending by Alexis Ffrench, Emahoy Tsige's The Song of the Sea, Florian Christl 's Natural
Favorite Sports
Walking, jogging, light hiking, "yoga"
Favorite TV Comedies
I prefer light, witty shows
Favorite TV Dramas
Intelligent series
Favorite TV News Sources
Neutral news sources
Favorite Foods
Seafood, roasted vegetables, Mediterranean
Favorite Styles Of Music
Soul, instrumental, classical, soft jazz
Interests
Art
I appreciate all creative genres that are expressive, thoughtful, or emotionally honest.
Astrology
Astrology & Astronomy: I’m interested in both the symbolic and scientific architecture of the cosmos. They help me understand cycles, timing, destiny, and the deeper design behind our human experience.
Business Finance
Business & Finance: With my background in advertising and media, I enjoy conversations about strategy, markets, and how global systems move. I like blending intuition with logic.
Cooking
I enjoy cooking simple, nourishing meals and find joy in preparing food with care. For me, food brings a sense of togetherness, home and grounding. What I love the most is to see people enjoy my cooking.
Exercise
Yes, I exercise daily; but my exercise is mindful movement, stretching, breath-led flow, similar to yoga.
Gardening
Yes
Internet
Yes
Medicine
Holistic Wellness / Medicine I’m passionate about inner architecture, meditation, and the connection between breath, body, and mind; for me well-being is more of a calling.
Painting
I appreciate all creative genres that are expressive, thoughtful, or emotionally honest.
Philosophy
I’m drawn to philosophy because I naturally think in layers and patterns. I enjoy questioning inherited beliefs and exploring truth beneath the surface.
Politics
I’m apolitical. I think for myself, and I haven’t yet seen a system that genuinely supports human or cultural sovereignty. But I enjoy thoughtful conversations about how society works.
Psychology
Human behaviour and emotional intelligence fascinate me. I enjoy conversations that explore motives, patterns, and the way people become who they are.
Reading
Reading & Writing: I don’t read as much as I used to, but my reading stretches back to childhood and has shaped much of my inner world. These days, I write and publish articles on LinkedIn which helps me clarify my thinking, reflect deeply, and express ideas in a way that invites thoughtful discussion and peer review.
Religion
Spirituality / Religion: My life is grounded in spiritual awareness rather than dogma. I connect with people who can discuss meaning, calling, ancestry, and the unseen with maturity and openness.
Traveling
I’m not a constant traveler, but I have lived and studied abroad, which shaped me in meaningful ways. I studied in South Korea, lived in the UK and Italy, and travelled through parts of Europe.
Personality
Adventurousness Somewhat Daring
Affectionateness Somewhat Doting
Trustingness Average
Confidence Somewhat Confident
Independence Somewhat Independent
Mood Average
Romance Somewhat Romantic
Sociability Average
Thought Process Somewhat Analytical
Tolerance Average
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Formal
Energy Somewhat High
Go Party Rarely
Neatness Super Neat
Punctuality Often Early
Spending Average
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
Enjoying each other's company, good food and wine, flowing conversation, soft music, and a feeling of safety and ease; just two people enjoying a genuine connection.
Describe your perfect weekend.
Coffee!!, calm mornings, watching good content, laughter, rest, connection.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
I don’t believe in love at first sight. I believe we meet people because they become conduits for our own growth. Love, to me, is what brings us together so we can meet the love within themselves.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
How you show up as a person, matters more to me. Clean, healthy, grounded energy is attractive.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
To be the light that you want to be and see in the world.
What is the purpose of marriage?
To build a life with someone who brings peace, partnership, and growth.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
Peace is a choice, and alignment is a discipline.
What do your friends like about you most?
My depth, humour, how I show up, and the way I make them feel and seen.
What do your friends tease you about the most?
My friends laugh about my tendency to retreat into solitude.
What gets on your nerves?
Dishonesty, arrogance, emotional immaturity.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Emotional safety, mutual respect, intimacy (physical and emotional) and shared values.
What's the best age to get married?
When two people are emotionally mature and aligned, age is secondary.
What turns you off?
Dishonesty, disrespect, lack of self-awareness.
What turns you on?
Confidence, intelligence, calm masculinity, with emotional depth.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Leading global wellness projects, financially expansive, in a peaceful committed partnership.
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