I just signed up a few weeks ago. We all are excellent people until proven otherwise. I leave this for you to be the judge. Otherwise, I am self made, educated, happily divorced for 10 years, no children and no pets. Pet is definitely in my future planning. Looking to hopefully not to be on this site for too long. I used to have chemistry as the first condition. However, over the years I realized that I am more attracted to smart brains, decency, dignity and personality. I am not conceited by no means but please before you connect make sure that we do match as far as the look is concerned. I am sure I don't meet many men's criteria out there either and that is totally ok. When you go to a restaurant you order the food that you like, not the one next table people like. PS: Please post your recent photos. Have self confidence, we all look pretty in someone's eyes. The beauty is not always in the eyes of the beholder. My photos are from a month to a year old.