Over the years I have found that most women I encounter excel in the presence of a strong, respectful man. In the warmth of an atmosphere where a woman can relax, free her darkest desires, and let her guard down given real trust between us amazing things happen. Few are willing to brave the disapproval of the echoes of our upbringing, or risk the censure of colleagues, or the wrath of family to seek what is within. This type of courage is a rarer commodity than bravery in battle, or great intelligence. Yet it is the one essential, vital quality for those who seek to find that which yearns to be freed from within that can be most painful and rewarding to free. I'm supposed to use this space to tell you about me.....Ok, in a nutshell if you let me see the real you, the dark and light, your wretchedness and glory, your depravity/kinky side and holiness, the ugly and the beauty, I would find you to be wonderful. This is the very definition of grace and I will do the same. I'm a 6'6 235lb black man, well educated, successful in a very vanilla career. I'm not married (I'm happy) and I have a sense of humor! So the question is are you willing to travel down this path and see where We could go?