U make the judgment! Hope & anticipate it's the best. Unfortunately it turns out the opposite! U should stop! Evaluate matters! Take a deep breath & go on! Don't look back! Just memories & recollections U will carry on, plus the lessons learned. How can U measure & know when meeting a real decent man? It's not found in the things he owns or saves or even in his accomplishments! The true measure of a man is found in his faith & his heart! His friend’s who stand by him! The strength he displays under pressure, the sensitivity he unashamedly expresses & his willingness to reveal vulnerability, even at the risk of being hurt! It's found in the honesty & truth of his words, his unselfish actions, the genuineness of his life & the values he lives by! To determine the measure of a man, it's not by comparing him to other men, either weaker or stronger! U will know when U meet a real man, by how much U trust him & believe in him! How much his life & character enhances Urs!