Looking for positivity and chemistry

Where do I even begin? I've been out of the dating circuit for years, and I enjoy my independence, but I'd also be intereted in making a good friend and maybe more. I'm not naive enough to think that I'll find my "soule mate" on here, but I'm also not too cynical to believe that there might be someone out there......a woman between the ages of 47-60, who is attractive enough to be noticed, but not vain enough to crave endless attention. I'm a professional, single dad, my son is the most important thing in my life, which is why I'd perefer a single mom who feels the same about her child(ren), grown or not. I'm an eternal optimist and not looking to incite or receive any drama. P.S. a chin dimple would be an added bonus. Finally, I am not a full member, as I don't like the idea of this site automatically renewing memberships. Therefore, I cannot receive or send messages unless the sender is a full member.